Find your people

Shit tests work.

Dwelling, settlement, home.

The people who continue together are the ones that are your band.

This can happen at a distance, of course, as in merchants' leagues.

However, the shit tests that help you grow love are the ones that aren't deliberate.

They come from honest expression.

When you do what you actually want to do, it creates an environment that's difficult for people who don't want what you want.

Say, you really want to dance all night.

Dance! It will be easy for those who want to, and difficult for those who want to sleep instead.